{"id":1837,"date":"2017-11-16T10:16:45","date_gmt":"2017-11-16T15:16:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/vg-ford.com\/?p=1837"},"modified":"2017-11-16T10:16:45","modified_gmt":"2017-11-16T15:16:45","slug":"thinking-about-changes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vg-ford.com\/?p=1837","title":{"rendered":"Thinking about changes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Most people think about changes this time of year. It&#8217;s the turning of the seasons, I guess: as the world settles down to renew itself during the cold winter months of the Northern Hemisphere, thoughts turn to what we could do better. I&#8217;m helping Dad adjust to the new hip (he&#8217;s a terrible patient, but he&#8217;s trying), and thinking about my own life.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I recently interviewed for a new position at my day job, and one of the questions that the interviewer asked me that struck a nerve was &#8220;Where do you see yourself in 6 months?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>My honest answer was &#8220;I don&#8217;t know.&#8221; A year ago, I could have told you guys exactly where I was going. I was going to continue writing, working at my day job, and saving for retirement. Brian and I were going to spend a year following the Red Sox after we both retired, and then we were going to buy a used bookstore and open a combination bookstore\/gaming store to run in our twilight years.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And then Brian died. Now I have no idea what my plans are. I&#8217;m kind of adrift in a sea of possibilities, and not all of them are pleasant. While I&#8217;m lucky that I have an amazing roommate who is perfectly willing to fulfill the Red Sox\/bookstore plan (and let&#8217;s be honest, I probably will run a bookstore, and I&#8217;ll probably call it CrossWinds Books), I&#8217;m not sure I&#8217;ll be wanting to do it the same way. A lot of those plans were tied up with doing it with Brian, and it hurts to think about them now.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I am working on the Advent story for this year, which will start going up on December 1. This year is a special treat as well, since my lovely friend Kiaya is working on something for you guys to enjoy. I&#8217;m not going to say more (yeah, I know, tease, tease), but I promise you, it&#8217;s going to be awesome.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And <em>Winter&#8217;s Storm<\/em> is in process, so yes, the second book should be out in time for Christmas! I&#8217;m working on the final stuff with that, and to celebrate, I&#8217;ll be doing a giveaway. A very special one.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>More later. I&#8217;m still processing things.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most people think about changes this time of year. It&#8217;s the turning of the seasons, I guess: as the world settles down to renew itself during the cold winter months of the Northern Hemisphere, thoughts turn to what we could do better. I&#8217;m helping Dad adjust to the new hip (he&#8217;s a terrible patient, but &#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/vg-ford.com\/?p=1837\">>>Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14,100,23,9,12,22],"tags":[61,101,15,67,7,60,66],"class_list":["post-1837","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-advent","category-brian","category-goals","category-nanowrimo","category-personal","category-writing","tag-advent","tag-brian","tag-christmas","tag-goals","tag-life","tag-personal","tag-writing"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vg-ford.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1837"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vg-ford.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vg-ford.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vg-ford.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vg-ford.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1837"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vg-ford.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1837\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1838,"href":"https:\/\/vg-ford.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1837\/revisions\/1838"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vg-ford.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1837"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vg-ford.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1837"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vg-ford.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1837"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}